I will never post on this section again after this. Can somebody before they flag my post for removable tell me why they are doing it? It seems incredibly transphobic and provides I don’t feel like it is a safe space for genderqueer individuals. Why is my post being removed? Do I look like a cis gendered guy in the photo? Do you really think I would go out of myself top write such a detailed post about my identity and be a cis gendered guy posing as a women on the W4W section?
This is insane. I haven’t been on cragslist in years. I guess it is not a very queer space anymore. If people feel offended why don’t you email me and tell me what is offensive about my post!
I am pasting it below once again. I guess if its flagged this time I give up. Game over I guess!
I am not including my pic this time.
ATTENTION: Before you flag this post please know that I am female born, genderqueer and interested in female bodied people! I have been flagged I guess for maybe not identifying as a lesbian I am not sure but its annoying. Where am I supposed to post if not here?
I am 31, genderqueer fairly masculine presenting and queer identified. I am almost hesitant to post this because I have an okay cupid profile, which is great because people have pictures and write about themselves. However, I wanted to craft something that puts into the universe what I am looking for. I definitely have a type. I really like female-bodied people who are switchy and adro. I think super feminine woman are beautiful but I am not in general attracted to high femmes. I sometimes date trans guys as well. However, I have a weakness for genderqueer woman who like to play with gender. My last partner was a drag king and that was so sexy. She was pretty “feminine” presenting in day-to-day life but was much more dynamic than that.
I wonder if this add is annoyingly picky and superficial sounding. I hope not. I guess that sort of physical stuff is important to me but there is a lot of emotional and communicative stuff that is important as well. I have a tendency to like down to earth people who are sweet, smart and sassy at times as well. I like people who are interested in being open, loving and work on communicating more effectively. I am in recovery and work diligently on having successful healthy relationships with people in my life.
I am looking to date someone who is open to seeing someone with limited time. I have time for emails, texts and phone conversations frequently however only have time for proper dates once a week. I could maybe squeeze extra time for smaller hangouts during the week.
My life is really full right now with working two jobs AA meetings and time with friends but I want someone sweet in my life that wants to go on dates, have adventures in and out of the bedroom and have fun when we can both find the time.
Lastly, I was poly for a long time but at this point want to be radically monogamous. Someone used that term recently and I liked it. If you want to know more about what that means ask but know I am still learning what it means as well.
If you are interested feel free to write me about yourself.
Location: The Gay Area!
it’s NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests
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